SAFETY AND THE HOME
Creating a safety Plan can assist in protection from domestic violence. There are a number of ways that you can keep safe.
AT HOME
- Keep a ‘go bag’ with spare car keys, money, a spare phone (with numbers programmed including DV Connect 1800 811 811), medication/ scripts, clothes (for you & kids) and important papers (copy of birth certificate, bank statements, other ID). Remember keep it in an accessible area
- Work out who your support network is and talk to someone about the violence
- Tell a trusted neighbour about violence and tell them to call the police if they hear disturbances from your house
- Decide in the event of an emergency where you will go, a 24hr police station, friend, family member or women’s refuge
- If you plan to leave, gather information about Centrelink, finances, support available and seek legal advice
- Develop a simple safety plan with your children so they know what to do when domestic violence occurs at home. This could be running to a trusted neighbour in your street or simply meeting where your evacuation point is if there is a fire
IN PHYSICALLY VIOLENT SCENARIOS
- Stay away from rooms with weapons and rooms with hard surfaces such as the kitchen and bathroom
- Avoid rooms with no external exits such as a window or door to outside
- Memorise the quickest and easiest escape route and ensure there are no obstacles.
SAFETY AFTER SEPARATION
- Change the locks on all doors AND windows
- Install security screens, sensor lights and if affordable; perhaps a security camera
- Check smoke detectors and extinguishers
- Increase safety of where you park your vehicle, get an automatic garage door opener, add more sensor lights and trim or remove shrubs and bushes
- Tell your neighbours your partner no longer lives with you and to please contact the police if he is seen around the house
- Change your mobile number and landline number
KEEP YOUR CONTACT DETAILS SECRET
- Open new bank and phone accounts, the old records may show your location
- Have mail redirected to a post office for some time, perhaps even get a post office box
- Change your vehicle registration
- Change your name (in extreme circumstance)
- Obtain a new Tax File Number, Medicare Number, Centrelink Reference Number
- Notify school of circumstances and discuss information recorded on “One School” if a school transfer is necessary
- Remember to seek legal advice